TOP 10 PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS TO MAKE SURE OTHER PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOU

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Top 10 Psychological Tricks to make sure that others like you

Usually friendships occur spontaneously. You do not realize how exactly it came about. At times in your life you will meet people you would like to become friends with. It may also be that you feel distant to people and would like to stand closer to them or you just want those people to like you. In all these cases you can use the following tricks. Psychological research has shown that they contribute to the faster development of better relationships with people. And then hope they’ll still find you when they find out you used these tricks …

10. Act like you like them

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The principle of reciprocity means that if we think someone else likes us, we tend to find those too kind. In a psychological experiment, subjects were told that some members of a group discussion probably found them nice. These members were selected by chance by chance. Nevertheless, after the group discussion, the subjects indicated that they found the members who probably thought they were the nicest. If you show someone else that you find the other kind, they will probably also find you nice.

9. Touch them subtly

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TOP 10 PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS TO MAKE SURE OTHER PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOU

Touching sublimina means that you touch someone so subtly, that one hardly notice it. Examples of this are to touch someone’s back or touch someone’s arm. This can make them feel more warmed to you. A French psychological experiment revealed that young men claiming an unknown woman on the street had double success if they touched the woman’s arm very much during the conversation than when they did not touch. Also in a survey where waitresses touched the hand or shoulders of customers, the same outcome emerged. They received a higher fee than the waitresses who did not touch the customers. So touch people very subtly. Do not overdo this in particular, because you probably reach the opposite.

8. Give compliments, but not too much

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It does not matter what you say about another, it will always affect how the other thinks about you.This is shown by research. If you describe someone else as sincere and kind, then the other will also associate you with these qualities. The opposite also appears. If you’re continually negative about people talking behind them, your friends will start to associate you with these negative qualities. So it’s much better for your position with others if you are positive about others. Compliments are of course also good for one’s self-confidence. Do not give this too much, because that makes you unbelievable .

7. Tell them a secret

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Self-relegation is a very good technique for attracting people to you. In a study , students were classified into groups of two, and were then instructed to get to know each other in 45 minutes. Some student couples had to put together personal, in-depth questions like ‘How do you feel about your mother’s relationship?’ Other couples had to hold a conversation with sober, more closed questions.An example of this is, “What’s your favorite vacation?” The students, who expressed the more personal, in-depth questions, said after the experiment that they felt much more connected to each other than the students of the other group. If you know something personally, you are more likely to feel connected and invest in the future in the future. It creates a trust band if you tell a secret to the other.The other one will probably be confident in this too.

6. Let them talk about themselves

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TOP 10 PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS TO MAKE SURE OTHER PEOPLE WILL LIKE YOU

Psychological research has shown that talking about ourselves is a necessary need. In the same way as food, money and sex that are. An experiment showed that it does not matter if we talk about ourselves or listen to people or tell them without anyone else. Also for no purpose we are still talking about ourselves. So it’s definitely worth talking about people about their own lives rather than just talking about our lives. Thus, the other positive memories will have your conversation.

5. Show warmth and competence

The stereotype content model indicates that people evaluate others for their warmth and competence.According to this model, if you are a warm personality (ie not competitive and friendly), people will feel that they can trust you. If you are competent because you have followed good training, for example, show good ways, people tend to respect you. Create trust and respect with the others by being warm and competent.

4. Highlight the similarities

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The more similarity we have with another, the more attractive we find the other. This is evidenced by an experiment in which subjects were placed in a house to live there together. The duo’s seemed to be more or less in terms of interests, personality and behavior. The two who had more in common found each other at the end of their stay more pleasant than the other group of subjects. The television program Married at First Sight is based on this principle. In this, eight teams are linked by a team of experts based on similarities. So it’s good if your friends want to become someone to bring the similarities that you have (subtly) to the attention of the other.

3. Remember your flaws occasionally

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People will find you nicer if you occasionally make a mistake or do not know anything. In addition, it is important that you are usually a competent personality. Clearance that you are not perfect makes you more reliable and vulnerable. From a survey where students watched a video of participants in a quiz, the following came forward. If people did good at the quiz and afterwards they drank coffee, they found it nicer than those who did good on the quiz and did not enjoy coffee afterwards. Even those who did not do well on the quiz and coffee were less likely to be found by the students. To show advantage of vulnerability is also that people feel more comfortable in your presence. If you are vulnerable, another will be easier as well.

2. Show positive emotions, a happy mood

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E exercise contamination means that people are strongly influenced by the moods of others. Research shows that people (to a greater or lesser extent) are unwittingly able to feel the emotions of others and that their own mood is influenced by it. So you can give people a happy feeling by being happy. Show positive emotions, laugh a lot and use humor. You will see that others like to be near you.

1. Listen carefully and copy

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Copying someone’s behavior, this strategy is called in psychology. When you talk to someone, copy your body language, movements, and facial expressions. Research shows that if you do this, the other will find you nice. People had to work with a partner who collaborated secretly for an investigation.These partners got the job to copy a lot or just not to copy. Those who copied a lot were found much nicer than those who did not. By copying, you give people the impression that you are very busy (sincerely) with them or listening to them. That’s what people appreciate you. Conversely, if you listen to people carefully, you will copy yourself. So listen carefully and copy, then you are loved by the other.

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